Difference Between Fallback and Fall in Love

Is he a rebound?

You just came out from a very throbbing heart ache, after failed dates and failed attempts of commitment; there you are eating dinner alone, watching chick flicks with no one to exchange views with. It is a very depressing state, so they say. But do you really have to jump into a new relationship one after another? Have you let yourself heal once and for all? Do you always feel the need to be loved by another just to be secured? Then, you should think first before you make any bold steps.

Entering into a relationship just because you feel least valued when you are single is a wrong notion. The need for someone to fill up the gaps of your missing self or to let someone else pick up where your ex lover left off will also not make any good. Having a partner will not cover up your insecurities in life. Partners are designed to be a companion in life’s ever changing dramas, and not as someone to fill in with all the things missing in your life. A fallback relationship will just worsen everything.

These are issues you have to deal with yourself. And no one can you help you in that matter, but yourself alone. After a breakup you should let yourself wallow, and find your losing self once more. You hold your happiness, thus you should never depend it on anybody else. Some are happy with their single lives and are secured with what they have. Love should be the main reason why a person binds himself to another. Pursuing a relationship means that you love the person, not because you want to feel loved. The right person will come to you, the moment you are ready to open up yourself once more and be able to love like never before.