Because of this very fast paced world where electronic mails, social networks and text messages have been the means of communication, did you know that you can actually decode your man through the way he send you an email or text message? Here is how.
Men are known to be serious and very straight forward, but if his emails or text messages comes with emoticons such as smiling face, this means that he is comfortable around you and he is trying you to see that he can be goofy and fun with you.
Blocks of Text
You can actually say if he is really interested towards you through the length of his texts or emails. If it is long enough, this means that he took time to formulate all his thoughts in to keep you interested, but if it is too short, maybe he is not just that into you yet and does not want to be attached any soon.
Greetings can do so much, if he uses the casual hey there! This means that he does not see something deep between you two. But if he uses other endearing greetings this means that he pays respect to you and would want to know you a lot better because he sees you as a potential partner. But if he scratched the greetings, well he has developed being comfortable with you so he thinks formal greeting is not necessary anymore.
The male mind is complicated yet you can decode them through easy ways. Sending emails and text messages are not really far from verbally communicating with someone. Modern technology just makes a little twist to the usual everyday communication and makes it more worthy to treasure. It is really wonderful that people was able to find love online. And once you find that guy, for fun you can work out what are the chances of you finding real love with them.
You just came out from a very throbbing heart ache, after failed dates and failed attempts of commitment; there you are eating dinner alone, watching chick flicks with no one to exchange views with. It is a very depressing state, so they say. But do you really have to jump into a new relationship one after another? Have you let yourself heal once and for all? Do you always feel the need to be loved by another just to be secured? Then, you should think first before you make any bold steps.
Entering into a relationship just because you feel least valued when you are single is a wrong notion. The need for someone to fill up the gaps of your missing self or to let someone else pick up where your ex lover left off will also not make any good. Having a partner will not cover up your insecurities in life. Partners are designed to be a companion in life’s ever changing dramas, and not as someone to fill in with all the things missing in your life. A fallback relationship will just worsen everything.
These are issues you have to deal with yourself. And no one can you help you in that matter, but yourself alone. After a breakup you should let yourself wallow, and find your losing self once more. You hold your happiness, thus you should never depend it on anybody else. Some are happy with their single lives and are secured with what they have. Love should be the main reason why a person binds himself to another. Pursuing a relationship means that you love the person, not because you want to feel loved. The right person will come to you, the moment you are ready to open up yourself once more and be able to love like never before.
Will you not agree with me when I say that each and everyone of us has pictured out our dream guy, that guy whom we called as our the one. We have this long line of check list of the characteristics and traits of our dream guy. We are so engrossed in that idea that sometimes it is all that we think leaving us missing out of the important and much more sensible things.
Keeping It Real
We are so caught up with the idea of ideal guy and the result is we overlook at the real guy. Because we have made this icon in our heads, we tend to compare our check list to the guy whom we are currently with. We always look if the real guy has all the characteristics of our dream guy and because of this we tend to not appreciate what and who he is. We are not able to see his capabilities. We should set fantasy from reality, it will always be best to keep it all real.
Dream and Reality
We are having a hard time letting go of the dream guy fiasco, so we are not able to look beyond reality. We are not able to comprehend what is more important. We are stuck in a situation where our standards are set too high, making it impossible to attain by a simple human being. By this we detach ourselves to what could have been our Mr. Right.
There is a hair line distinction between infatuation and falling in love. We should not cage ourselves into an idea that only exists in our minds; we should open ourselves to different possibilities that may come our way and be able to be flexible with it. There is no prince charming in a white horse to save you when you feel like you are the damsel in distress. But there is that man who can make you happy in way he knows and might even exceed your idea of the ideal guy and that is your Mr. Right.
You want your date to be as smooth sailing as it should be. But there are certain things you should never do. First impression lasts so they say, so you have to make your best foot forward. So if you have successfully acted the way a gentleman would, you will be able to enjoy a second date with her.
Never Lay Your Eyes to Another Girl
Always keep your eye contact with her, eye contacts give a sense of sincerity, so you have to keep that sincerity flowing. Never ever look too long to a hot girl that just passed by. This will send her the signal that you cannot concentrate on her. And it is a big turn off.
Never Tell a False Story
Never ever fabricate a story about yourself just to make a good impression. Always be true to yourself, and show her what you truly are. These lies won’t take you a long way, soon enough she will figure it all out. And she would think that, if you can lie about yourself, there might be tendencies that you will do the same in your relationship.
Don’t be late!
Have the decency to be there moments before she arrives, remember you are the one who initiated this date, and it will be a big turn off to make her wait for an hour for you. Bear in mind that you are aiming for a good impression, and being late is not a good thing. Allot a time, and expect traffic if there is, so you can calculate the time that you will be there.
Don’t Give Too Much Information
Do not divulge every information about yourself, especially those topics concerning your ex, on the first dates, it is hardly her concern. Just tell her a brief story of how you do or what you do for a living. Ex files may come when she initiated about the topic.
So there you go, avoid all these and be that guy she would want to date for a number of times. By avoiding all these you just made the best impression there is.